2010 ~ Treat it Like a New Baby
When I finally – and I do mean finally and won’t go into gory details – brought my son home he scared me. I was a new mom with no baby experience. He was a gift, an exquisite one. He had the correct number of fingers and toes, everything seemed in tact. But he cried and cried. Was I caring for him as he required? Fed. Yes. Dry. Yes. As he cried, I became more upset, and he cried louder and became still more upset. As did I.
What was was creating his discontent? Well, it was me. And my wise husband easily demonstrated my failings. My husband – in his ever relaxed and confident manner – fell asleep on the couch with the new babe on his chest, who was soon fast asleep too.
I learned from my husband and son, hold precious things dearly but do not be afraid of them. Don’t treat your special things as though they will break or as if you don’t deserve them.
My wish for you is to appreciate the gift of 2010 and enjoy every minute, hour and day. Don’t be afraid of of the what ifs or maybes. Let me know what you have made happen and how you have tackled 2010…
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Love that post, love that story!
Thank you Kathryn!
You too have watched him grow as I have watched and admired you grow too.
To let you all know, Kathryn is a special young woman who has not been afraid of what ifs or maybes. She lives life to the fullest and rocks it.
Happy New Year Kathryn…can’t wait to hear about your latest travels.
Relaxing: easier said than done. I remember days like that with my firstborn. She’s a healthy and confident young woman now; almost despite the early days, I sometimes think. Hugs to you; have a wonderful
Hi Daisy – I know, it is easier said than done. I have learned along the way whether I face things in an uptight way or relaxed, the results are likely the same. And if I tackle situations in the relaxed mode I come out the other end a little less frayed.
My guy turned out well too. He is a young man who I am proud to know.
I’ve just read your latest blog article: http://compostermom.blogspot.com and had a good giggle. The $64.00 tomato sounds like a good read. The title resonated – I’ve grown those expensive
fruit and veg too. But for the taste it was worth it!
Happy New Year to you and yours,
Janice
Happy New Year Janice!
I love your story and the incredibly powerful message/lesson you’ve shared. Although I haven’t been blessed with the wonder, awe and life-changing experience of motherhood, your story hit home for me. The past couple of years have been challenging and what I learned is the more I tried to handle all of it, the farther I seemed to be from achieving my goal of getting through it.
As soon as I relaxed and began to focus on the wonder of the here and now which includes focusing on all of the gifts in my life rather than the lack and struggle, things started to turnaround.
I begin 2010 with great expectations and looking forward to what each day brings. Is it easy to remain in that state – no. It takes work, a constant sense of self-awareness and being present.
Thanks again for sharing your story. Happy New Year to you and your family! I’m looking forward to seeing you soon. Cheers!
Thank you Sabrina for your powerful words.
Just yesterday I found myself in a quandary about making a decision and realized that I was getting caught up in other’s expectations. Thank goodness for a clear moment.
It is funny how we view ourselves and often how differently others view us. I think of you as always present and comfortable. And I am appreciative of how you share your knowledge and wisdom and your kindness.